Lol TMZ.com yesterday (January 8th, 2014) reported that Jennifer Lopez “had a little truth slip” on American Idol (Wednesday night January the 7th.) I had to laugh. A little truth? How about a big fat one we’ve all been observing for years: she has terrible taste in men. That’s not to say they are terrible men. She just makes bad choices for herself. Consistently. Over and over again. Like, duh already.
What causes a woman (or man for that matter) to consistently choose the wrong partner? I’m sure any psychologist or marriage and family counselor can come up with many reasons. But, the one I consistently see the most in my hypnosis practice, is a person who is unconsciously trying to work out issues from their childhood using their partner as a stand in.
Of all the famous movie quotes tossed around in pop culture, the one that makes me gag is the line from Jerry Maguire, “You complete me.” Are you kidding me? Who wants an incomplete partner? By the time a person enters marriage they had better be a complete person unto themselves. To rely on your romantic partner to complete you as a human being is a recipe for divorce. Just ask JLo. By the way, if you are a “completer” (the one who is doing said completing) chances are you are not enjoying a lasting and fulfilling relationship either.
Why is JLo not a complete person unto herself? Maybe she is the “completer.” Why does she date “the help”? Why does she marry a narcissist? More than once? And someone who had commitments elsewhere and technically unavailable? Why did she think just because someone had a similar upbringing, that would be enough?
My apologies to Mark Anthony, Ben Affleck, Diddy, Casper Smart and Cris Judd. No offense guys, just making a point.
Through hypnotherapy, Jennifer Lopez could examine what in her subconscious mind leads her to make these choices. Her subconscious holds the key as to why she makes bad choices in men and her relationships and what it is that she REALLY needs from her partner. Knowing the answers to these questions help a person make better choices going forward; as well as help heal the cracks in their upbringing.
So, JLo – come on girl, get in my chair!
Let’s find out what your subconscious needs first, in order to form a healthy and lasting relationship. I guarantee you it’s not what you think. What you “think” has been leading you down the wrong road for years.
It’s a new year, and time for a new you. Call me Jenny, it’s going to be fun and interesting. I promise.
Mona Jones is a Certified Hypnotherapist in Orange County, California who, through the power of hypnosis helps her clients uncover hidden motivation, heal the past and attract the right partner for lasting, fulfilling relationships. For more information visit: www.Acceleratedchangehypnosis.com